True Love

1. True love is not the same as lust
Love and lust often confuse us. Actually, most of the theme of the movie, song, novel is not about love, but lust. How to distinguish them?
love test stand, ... lust easily fade ...
appreciate the love ... lust harness ...
Physical attraction is often the only signal the beginning of the growth of true love, but it was not so true love.

2. Love is not the same as romance
Indeed remarkable romantic feelings in close relationships between men and women. God is designing for us to experience this feeling in a special relationship with the opposite sex. But the passion and warmth of romance can not be equated with love. Romance is a feeling; while true love still has a much deeper meaning anymore.

3. True love is not the same as the crazy
Infatuation is a fascination and passion strong in the person of the opposite sex. You will think of him day and night. Your mind is consumed by the person so you can not concentrate on anything else. Another word of persaan infatuation is puppy love or love monkeys. Falling in love or in love first sight usually they talk about infatuation ...

4. True love does not equal sex
Love is a process; Sex is an act. Love can be learned; sex is an instinct. Love requires continuous attention; Sex does not have to like it. Love takes time to grow and become adults; Sex does not need time to develop. Love requires the interaction of emotional and spiritual; sex only requires physical interaction. Love makes the relationship deepened; sex without love makes relationships so tenuous.

Basically there are three behaviors in relationships with other people, who are often called "Love".

1. "I love you if ..."
Conditional love, 'love if', the love that a requirement. This kind of love is given or received if certain requirements are met, the example I love you if you want to have sex with me once ... 'love if' always binding. As long as conditions are met, the relationship was fine. However, when the requirement was not met, the love that came to nothing. Many marriage foundered because it was built by 'love if'. 'Love if' is not true love. if you're dealing with someone and felt compelled to do something first to get love, means that you have a relationship not based on true love.

2. "I love you because ..."
Someone to love others because of something owned or done it. For example, I love you because you are beautiful, good, and so on. Sounds pretty good because of his love almost everyone loved loved their personal krn or what they are doing. 'Love for' not true love. You may feel attracted to someone because of his personality, his position, intelligence, skills, etc. However, if the basis of your love is deeper than what is just visible owned or carried out by someone, then that love will not last long.

3. Love the point
The third type of love is unconditional love. This kind of saying I love you though you will experience many changes. There is nothing that can you make to extinguish my love. 'Love the point' not blind love. This kind of love can be and really get to know in depth the people he loves. Love is aware of the possibility of failures, shortcomings and mistakes of it. There is no way to cultivate this kind of love, but otherwise you can not lose the love that like this. 'Love the point' is different from 'love if' because love does not need to meet certain requirements before it is given. Also in contrast to 'love for' cause is not determined by whether or not he's attractive or values ​​favored by the other party.
Lust, romance, infatuation, sex, 'love if', and 'love for' both want to get something from someone else, otherwise true love like giving to others.