Through his book The Evolution of Desire, psychologist David M. Buss, Ph.D., of the University of Texas, USA, offers the answer is quite challenging to prove.
In a study of 10,000 women from 37 different cultural backgrounds, he asked, what they want from each other? The most common answer is:
1. Money and welfare
2. Social status and influence (power)
3. A person who is older (average 3.5 years older than him)
4. Ambition
5. Intelligence and reliable
6. Love and commitment
The top five of these answers give women a sense of security that is needed in order to meet the biological demands to manage the family, including raising a child (even if she does not have children, according to Buss, desires stored in the liver is still guiding women in choosing). Men older, more intelligent, ambitious to achieve higher social status can give assurance evolutionary in fruitful: food, housing, education, and better health care.
While love and commitment to make all of the above becomes more enjoyable and meaningful.
An understanding of the woman's deepest agenda will help him understand why most women seek to embrace the security of a long-term relationship. So, do not rush offered sex.
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